
What’s the secret to success? There is no secret! But a positive attitude, hard work and keeping your feet on the ground will take you a long way in the world of business. Take it from someone who knows.
Some time ago I had the pleasure of interviewing and writing about Julian Tertini, the man who created — and later sold — Freedom Furniture. After his “no compete” time period was up, Tertini was itching to get back into retail and decided to buy the struggling Fantastic Furniture business, which has since turned around big time. Here are some of his unique views on living with, and loving, your business experience.
Life is like a bank account
Every day you make deposits and withdrawals. Deposits are the things you say or
do that are good, positive or helpful to other people. Withdrawals are the
things you say or do that are destructive or negative.
Your aim in life, in order to have emotional, physical, and financial wealth, should be to make a lot more deposits than withdrawals.
The power of co-operation
You rarely achieve success without the active support of a lot of people. You
need other people to co-operate with you and to believe in what you are
doing.
It’s people plus systems
This one will shock the systems lovers. Tertini believes that too many
businesses try to organise and systemise to counter human nature. He’s not
against systems — humans need systems to function properly — but he stresses
that whenever possible, make sure your systems tap into basic human nature.
You are what you think
All actions result from thoughts, and the quality of your outcomes is directly
related to the quality of your thoughts. You make choices every hour of every
day that are either positive or negative to your life. So think more and choose
better. Think of the consequences. Thought takes energy, time and effort and
that’s why we often avoid thinking.
You are responsible for your outcomes
Accepting responsibility for what happens to you is one of the most liberating
things you can do. It is liberating because you understand that the power to
change things, to achieve outcomes, rests in your hands and not someone else’s.
Unsuccessful people spend most of their time blaming outside events or people
for negative results.
Put in more than you expect to get back
So many people think the reverse is true. “Tell me what I’ll get back and then
I might put in the effort.” While this approach may seem logical, it almost
always never works, especially in the long term. Rewards come from the least
expected avenues. Predicting them is impossible. So why try?
Leverage your time
Most people don’t use their time wisely, and yet it is very valuable. How do
you leverage time? By trying to get more than one benefit or result from as
many timeframes as possible. Tertini gives the example of listening to
educational podcasts on the way to work as better time usage, compared to
listening to early morning radio.
Courageously ask questions
Most people are afraid of asking too many questions. Consequently, they work
with assumed, apparent or false facts. Decisions made on these bases usually
have poor outcomes. Don’t ever be afraid to question. And remember another
rule: quite often the first answer you get to a difficult question is not the
right answer.
Invest in you
Try to know more about your industry than anyone else. Be the best you can be.
Take pride in how you do things. Take pleasure in doing things well, in seeking
out the right answers and outcomes. Learn more each year about everything that
you’re involved in.
Happiness and passion are your choices
Most people say that happiness is one of their main goals in life. The good
news is that you can often choose to be happy or unhappy. Your attitude and
response to the everyday stuff that comes your way determines whether you are
happy or unhappy.
So too with passion; you either do stuff in your life that you are already passionate about, or you need to develop a passion for what you do. Either way, life becomes more interesting, satisfying and positively challenging.
Think win–win
This means that you seek solutions so that everyone wins. It requires a balance
between self respect and respect for others. It comes from having a character
of integrity and maturity and having an “abundance” mentality.
What, me wrong?
Always be willing to consider the possibility that you may be wrong. Never
think that you know it all. Try to think solution rather than problem, and be
willing to abandon your old ideas if someone comes up with something new or
better.
Go on, pay the price
Understand that everything in life has a price. It is amazing how many people
expect stuff for which they aren’t willing to pay the price. Even winning Lotto
requires you to buy a ticket! The hard question to answer is whether you’re
willing to pay the price in order to obtain what you seek.
Do I have the right balance?
Remember that balance should be measured over a lifetime. Most people measure
balance over much shorter time frames, and therefore become unwilling to pay
the necessary price for the outcomes they desire.
Simplicity is the key to clear thoughts
We are all bombarded with an overwhelming volume of noise, facts and
information. Don’t lose sight of the power of simplicity. People often give
themselves permission to fail by making simple things complex.
If you can’t excel with talent, do so with effort
You’ll be doing exactly what the vast majority of successful people have to do.
The necessity of work hard is an integral part of success in any field of
endeavour.
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