What Mary Fowler knows about money

CommBank Matildas star Mary Fowler shares her take on balancing big dreams, budgets and enjoying the moment.

By Brooke Le Poer Trench

At just 22, Mary Fowler is already kicking goals—on the field and in life. The CommBank Matildas star isn’t just known for her football brilliance; she’s also admired for her grounded, thoughtful approach to everything she does.  

When it comes to money, Mary’s story is all about learning, growing and figuring it out as she goes. She’s discovered how to set boundaries, find a sense of control through budgeting and strike that tricky balance between enjoying today and planning for tomorrow. Here, Mary opens up about her financial journey (spoiler: she’s still on it) and the lessons she’s picked up along the way. 

What’s your earliest memory of learning about money?  

I come from a big family and we didn’t have a lot so I learnt early on not to spend what we didn’t have. Most of our shopping was done in charity stores or secondhand shops. That upbringing has stayed with me—I often justify my purchases now by giving back to others. If I’m not spending on myself, it feels okay. 

Did you feel guilty spending money as you started earning more?  

Early on, I didn’t save or plan for the future. It wasn’t until I moved overseas, started living on my own and had to manage pay cheques and bills that I began to understand the importance of budgeting and saving. 

How has being a professional athlete shaped your views on money?  

In sport, you usually have a short window to earn. Many athletes’ careers start winding down at about 30 so there’s pressure to make the most of the time you have. Talking to friends and teammates helped me realise how important it is to save and plan for the future. It’s a bit scary to think about what comes after football but it’s also a big motivator to prepare now. 

Do you set financial goals for the future?  

Yes, setting goals has been a game changer for me. It gives me peace of mind and saving for specific targets has reduced my anxiety about the future. I know what I’m working towards, which makes everything feel less overwhelming. 

Mary Fowler with CommBank Mini Mates. Photo: Guy Bailey

You’ve started managing money earlier than most people. Do you think that gives you an advantage? 

In some ways, yes. But it’s also given me perspective. I see my friends in university struggling to make ends meet while balancing study and part-time jobs. It’s made me realise how fortunate I am to be in this position. At the same time, I know how important it is to make the most of these years. 

Discussing money can be tough. What have you learnt about opening up?  

Talking about money has been eye-opening. For example, when I started dealing with taxes, it felt impossible to figure out. Hearing others say they struggled with the same thing made me feel so much better. It’s reassuring to know that nobody has it all figured out. 

And what have you learnt about negotiating your worth? 

It’s still a work in progress. I struggle with saying “I deserve this” and often feel grateful for whatever I’m offered. Having people around me who remind me of my worth has been a huge help. It’s important to have advocates who can guide you and help build your confidence. 

What advice would you give to young athletes?  

Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. They teach you so much about yourself and life. Mistakes aren’t failures—they’re opportunities to learn and grow. 

How do you approach enjoying today versus planning for the future? 

It’s all about balance. I remind myself that I could save everything but what if I die in two years? I wouldn’t have enjoyed the position I’m in now. I budget so that I can put aside money for the future but also have a set amount to enjoy guilt-free. It’s about making sure both future me and current me are taken care of. 

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An earlier version of this article was published in Brighter magazine.

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