“I’m not the world’s fastest runner but I enjoyed running with the club from the get-go. There were many women who I wouldn’t cross paths with on a day-to-day basis but most, like me, were struggling to carve out time for themselves as they navigated the pressures of work and family. The truth about running is this: the conversations you have when you’re side by side are more honest and so you end up sharing things you normally wouldn’t. On account of that, I’ve made some wonderful friends I now see all the time.
“Anybody can run, sometimes you just need the support of a community.”
“I’d been running for about six months when my husband died suddenly of cardiac arrest. I reached out to the group to explain that I couldn’t keep running as I was now the sole carer and provider of a four-year-old. They immediately created a babysitting fund so that I could keep running. These connections got me through a very dark time where I spent a lot of time staring at walls and dealing with death admin.
“I was diagnosed with breast cancer two years ago and true to form, I went straight back as soon as I recovered from my mastectomy. At first I tried to walk up to 10,000 steps a day and after a couple of months I started running for 30-minute slots. Within 10 months I was able to run my first half-marathon. I always tell people that if you can put out of your mind that image of who a ‘runner’ is, all you need is the discipline of giving yourself enough time to get out there and trust in what your body can do. Anybody can run, sometimes you just need the support of a community.”
A bonding experience
Andrea O’Grady, an assistant principal, mother and grandmother, volunteers as a run director of Cairns Parkrun.
“I never intended to become a runner; I fell into it after my 48th birthday after I convinced my youngest son to do a Colour Run with me to have some fun together. He never ran again, of course, but I was surprised by just how much I enjoyed the experience. When a colleague told me about Parkrun, a free, timed 5km event that takes place in thousands of locations around the world every Saturday morning, I thought it sounded perfect. I could run, jog or walk as fast – or slow – as I wanted without feeling embarrassed.