Rebuilding after coercive control: Why tech, financial security and community are key

Recovering from coercive control is a challenging and nuanced experience. Discover how tech, financial security and community can help victim-survivors rebuild.

Pictured below: Sally Spicer, host of There's No Place Like Home podcast

  • Technology is being reclaimed as a “shield” to protect financial abuse victims and provide access to care.
  • Moving from a fear-based mindset to financial stability acts as a primary facilitator for lasting change.
  • Kinship and cultural sensitivity play a vital role in breaking isolation and reclaiming identity after domestic abuse.

Finding your way after experiencing abuse is a complex journey. And while every story is different, there are certain elements that regularly act as powerful foundations in rebuilding a sense of independence for victim-survivors.

In the latest season of Future Women (FW)’s There’s No Place Like Home podcast, made in partnership with CommBank Next Chapter, host Sally Spicer and a number of expert guests explore the role and importance of technology, financial security and community in recovery for victim-survivors of coercive control.

Ahead, we look at some of the key reasons these three pillars are so significant to the process of reclaiming independence. 

Angela MacMillan, group customer advocate at CommBank.

Why technology is a powerful tool against coercive control

“In the wrong hands, technology can be used to instill fear but in the right hands, it’s a shield to defend and protect. A safeguard for systems and a tool to track perpetrators,” says Sally Spicer.

On There’s No Place Like Home, Angela MacMillan, group customer advocate at CommBank, shares that something as simple as having a dedicated phone number to call where you can speak with a trauma-informed specialist at CommBank Next Chapter is an impactful option for victim-survivors of coercive control. “You can call and have a discussion with someone about the situation you’re in and the help that you might need,” she says.

But technology can also act as an alert system. “We had a customer who reached out to the Next Chapter team in 2019. She had locked down her social media, changed phone numbers, moved addresses. She did all the right things but she was continuing to receive contact from her perpetrator via a banking platform,” explains MacMillan.

By sending low-value transactions into the customer’s account, he was able to share “horrific” messages through the transaction description field. “We undertook some pretty quick research and found that, based on our analysis, there’d been about 8000 instances of this in the preceding three months.”

CommBank took action, updating the terms and conditions of digital banking and blocking a long list of words – this has now prevented more than a million harmful transactions from going through in the past five years.

How financial security helps facilitate change

“Escaping an abusive partner is not just difficult, it’s expensive. Moving costs, rent, child care, lawyers, it all adds up, especially if you’ve already had your money taken or controlled,” says Spicer.

In There’s No Place Like Home, Loren Katafono, the New South Wales team lead for Good Shepherd at the Financial Independence Hub, shares that a lack of financial stability is often a barrier for people seeking to leave when experiencing coercive control.

Good Shepherd’s Financial Independence Hub offers “a team of case workers, financial counsellors, therapeutic workers, as well as an interest-free loan,” she shares. And one of the key intentions with these services is to help people change their mindsets about money. “They’re kind of rewiring themselves internally to look at money from a positive or proactive mindset that’s not fear based,” she says. 

Sono Leone Weatherall, founder of Strong Women Talking, says re-establishing a kinship connection is incredibly powerful for victim-survivors.

Finding strength in kinship and community

In the episode on cultural and community healing, Sally Spicer asks, “How can reconnecting with culture and community help someone rebuild their place in the world and reconnect with their own identity outside of a perpetrator’s influence and control?”

Sono Leone Weatherall, founder of First Nations-led organisation Strong Women Talking, which is a CommBank Next Chapter Innovation partner, explains that “a lot of women feel isolated or are isolated deliberately as a form of abuse. So re-establishing that kinship connection with a trusted mother figure” is incredibly powerful.

Award-winning human-rights advocate, Juliana Nkrumah of Settlement Services International, adds that in the case of refugees experiencing abuse, shared language and cultural sensitivity is vital in connecting with victim-survivors.

Equally, she explains the importance of having sources of support within close-knit communities where dangerous behaviour can be called out for what it is.

“We get the women who are magnets in the community. They know everything about everybody but they don’t have training in domestic violence [DV]. They don’t understand the red flags. We got them accredited training in DV so they’re able to say to young women, ‘You’re actually going through DV and there is help for you.’” 

Support is available

CommBank Next Chapter is committed to helping end financial abuse, even if you don’t bank with us. Learn more about CommBank Next Chapter.

In an emergency or if you’re not feeling safe, always call 000. For confidential information and support, we recommend calling 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) or 13 YARN (13 92 76). These free and confidential services are not part of Commonwealth Bank.

There’s No Place Like Home by Future Women (FW) is a weekly podcast series, made in partnership with CommBank Next Chapter. Catch up on all the episodes on CommBank’s YouTube channel or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Published: 8 May 2026

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